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How do you win at work?

40-50 hours a week (vs e.g. motherhood)

X 50 weeks a year = 2,000-2,500 hours a year

X 40 years = 80,000-100,000 hours a life

How does Christian faith work at work?

5 Ways to Worship at Work?

Since God works, work is godly
Genesis 2:2 on the seventh day God finished his work that he had done, and he rested on the seventh day from all his work that he had done.
Work is now cursed
The curse has made work toil (Genesis 3:16, 3:17-19).
We should work from our rest
Exodus 31:15 For six days, work is to be done, but the seventh day is a Sabbath of rest, holy to the LORD.
Your work is part of your worship
Jesus spent 90% (30 years) working a regular job which was God’s will for Him
Jesus spent 10% (3 years) working a ministry job which was God’ will for Him
Work is not sacred and secular, but workers are sacred and secular

Colossians 3:23-24 Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.

            “Your work is a very sacred matter.  God delights in it, and through it He wants to bestow His blessings on you. This praise of work should be inscribed on all tools, on the forehead and faces that sweat from toiling.”  Martin Luther

            Carpentry, tent making, fishing, medicine, teaching, farming, politics, metal work, music, investing, labor, construction, law, consulting, cooking, architecture, athletics, entertainment, banking, military, real estate, clothing, mothering, sales, etc. in Bible.

The Ideal Team Player (Patrick Lencioni)

Principle – a mediocre team always beats a world class superstar

God works as a team (Trinity, human team, angelic team)

Humble  2. Relationally Smart 3. Hungry

A Humble Team Player

Proverbs 3:7 [ESV] Be not wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord, and turn away from evil.

Humility begins with being under authority before being in authority

Proverbs 3:34 [ESV] Toward the scorners he is scornful, but to the humble he gives favor.

Humility admits a need for grace

Proverbs 27:18 He who tends a fig tree will eat its fruit, and he who looks after his master will be honored.

Humility works hard and honors leadership

Proverbs 11:16b-17 …ruthless men gain only wealth. A kind man benefits himself, but a cruel man brings trouble on himself.

Humility considers people and not just profit

Proverbs 15:22 Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.

Humility sees life as a class that’s always in session

A Relationally Smart Team Player

Proverbs 14:16-17 A wise man fears the Lord and shuns evil, but a fool is hotheaded and reckless. A quick-tempered man does foolish things, and a crafty man is hated.

Your relationship with God straightens out all other relationships

Proverbs 19:26 He who robs his father and drives out his mother is a son who brings shame and disgrace.

Your relationship with your family reveals your character

Proverbs 28:15 Like a roaring lion or a charging bear is a wicked man ruling over a helpless people.

Your relationships need to be based on God’s Kingdom, not the animal kingdom

Proverbs 11:13 A gossip betrays a confidence, but a trustworthy man keeps a secret.

Your relationships need a bank vault

Proverbs 28:23 [NLT] In the end, people appreciate honest criticism far more than flattery.

Your relationships are to be mirrors, not carnival mirrors

Proverbs 15:18 A hot-tempered man stirs up dissension, but a patient man calms a quarrel.

Your relationships needs a thermostat

Proverbs 17:14 Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam; so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out.

Your relationships can be broken and flow downstream to other relationships

A Hungry Team Player

Proverbs 16:26 The laborer’s appetite works for him; his hunger drives him on.

Hungry people start their own engine

Proverbs 10:4 Lazy hands make a man poor, but diligent hands bring wealth.

Hungry people are hardworking

Proverbs 14:23 All hard work brings a profit, but mere talk leads only to poverty.

Hungry people know that when all is said and done more is said than done

Proverbs 28:19-22 He who works his land will have abundant food, but the one who chases fantasies will have his fill of poverty.

Hungry people know a mirage when they see one

Proverbs 22:29 Do you see a man skilled in his work? He will serve before kings; he will not serve before obscure men.

Hungry people are known for the quality of their work

Ideal Team Player:

What teams are you on (work, family, church, sports, hobbies, etc.)?
What kind of team player were you in the past?
What kind of team player are you in the present?
What kind of team player do you want to be in the future?

= The Holy Spirit is on the same team as you

6 Kinds of Relationships  

Interact 500-2500 people a year 
Jesus constant crowds – sick, demon possessed, needed, mental illness, disciples, critics 
How did Jesus remain healthy & have relationships w/unhealthy people 

3 Ways to View People 

John 2:24-25 (NLT), “But Jesus didn’t trust them, because he knew all about people. No one needed to tell him about human nature, for he knew what was in each person’s heart.” 

Naive
Paranoid 
Discerning 

Treat Different People Differently 

Proverbs 24:1-3, 5-7 Be not envious of evil men, nor desire to be with them, for their hearts devise violence, and their lips talk of trouble…A wise man is full of strength, and a man of knowledge enhances his might, for by wise guidance you can wage your war, and in abundance of counselors there is victory. Wisdom is too high for a fool; in the gate he does not open his mouth.

Wise People 

Proverbs 9:8-9 “…correct the wise, and they will love you. Instruct the wise, and they will be even wiser. Teach the righteous, and they will learn even more.”

No one is wise in every area 

Wise – not smart 

Humble
Teachable
Embraces Reality
Empathy
Responsible
Seeks to learn & grow
Welcomes messenger

= conflict & correction grows relationship 

= more time, energy, money, access, information 

Live by Spirit = Personal Relationship

Foolish People 

Proverbs 1:7“…fools despise wisdom and discipline.”

Proverbs 26:3 “Guide a horse with a whip, a donkey with a bridle, and a fool with a rod to his back!”

Everyone foolish in areas & at times 

Foolish – not dumb = Pastoral 

Proud (conflict)
Unteachable
Denies Reality
Selfish (low empathy)
Irresponsible Victim
Wants others to change, not them
Shoots messenger

= Fun, people enjoy but do not respect 

= irresponsible, shift responsibilities & burdens to others, Bad gas mileage 

= consequences, boundaries, 

Live by Flesh = Pastoral Relationship 

Evil People

Proverbs 2:12-15 “Wisdom will save you from evil people, from those whose words are twisted. These men turn from the right way to walk down dark paths. They take pleasure in doing wrong, and they enjoy the twisted ways of evil. Their actions are crooked, and their ways are wrong.”

Dangerous
Righteous victim
Tormented & tormenting
Hurt & hurting
Entitled
Threatening
Bitter envy & selfish ambition

= if you engage, you will enrage (Judas) 

= protect, separate, necessary ending, set boundaries w/foolish people, pray for professionals

Live by Demonic = Professional Relationship

6 Kinds of Relationships 

Wise + Foolish = parental relationship 
Wise + Evil = distant relationship
Foolish + Foolish = codependent relationship
Foolish + Evil = abusive relationship 
Evil + Evil = dangerous relationship 
Wise + Wise = healthy relationship

4 Closing Questions

Are there any areas of your life that are foolish or evil? 
Which relationships with foolish people do you need to manage better this year? 
Which relationships with evil people do you need to protect yourself from this year?
Who do you love that you should share this information with? 

How do you emotionally heal from a hurt?

Our story – most difficult season invited wise counsel. Unique biblical insight, way of helping

The Hurt Cycle

Life hurts. Financially, emotionally, spiritually, physically etc.
We experience hurt – then we 1.  interpret why it happened and 2. our response

3 responses

1). Evil- justify hurting others out of your hurt

2), Foolish – ignore, blame shift, excuse make, deferred life maintenance until pain

3). Wise – seeks God and wise counsel to interpret the root cause & solution

Wise Counsel

Wise counsel listens to hurt person 1.What happened? 2. Why? 3.  How responding?
You know you’ve hit a hurt when someone overreacts
Wisdom is knowing which truth applies to each person/situation
We worsen hurt when we give the wrong prescription

Job is a case study in misdiagnosis

Is your hurt caused by your sin?

Proverbs 20:9 [NIV] Who can say, “I have kept my heart pure; I am clean and without sin”?

We all fail and fall so we need to be willing to not just feel hurt but consider why
Wisdom requires we seek patterns to our behavior

Proverbs 19:3 [ESV] When a man’s folly brings his way to ruin, his heart rages against the Lord.

Sometimes we are angry at God and feel justified in bad behavior
Until the heart has the “want to” there is no benefit from the “how to”

Proverbs 14:16 [ESV] One who is wise is cautious and turns away from evil, but a fool is reckless and careless.

Solution: Repentance is turning away from evil, change of 1. head 2. heart 3. hands
Did someone sin against you and hurt you?

Proverbs 14:10 [ESV] The heart knows its own bitterness, and no stranger shares its joy.

Torment moves into a bitter heart
Unforgiveness robs life of all joy
Relive & Retell

Proverbs 23:17 [ESV] Let not your heart envy sinners, but continue in the fear of the Lord all the day.

Temptation to return evil for evil (vengeance, self-justify)

Proverbs 24:17 [ESV] Do not rejoice when your enemy falls, and let not your heart be glad when he stumbles…

Test of forgiveness is whether you want them to be blessed or cursed 

     What forgiveness is not

Forgiveness is often a private matter between only you and God.
Forgiveness is both a one-time event and an ongoing process. (Matt 18:21-22 70X7)
Forgiveness is not enabling crime, foolishness, irresponsibility, or sin.
Forgiveness is not trust or reconciliation.
Your forgiveness is not God’s forgiveness. (cross or hell)

Forgiveness is

Responding to Jesus instead of the hurt (forgiven people should forgive people)
Transferring the burden to God
Stopping trying to control people and outcomes
Letting go of both the sin and the stress
What powerful lies are you believing?

Proverbs 14:25 [ESV] A truthful witness saves lives, but one who breathes out lies is deceitful.

Life decisions are based upon truth/reality; or lies/deception

Proverbs 12:17 [ESV] Whoever speaks the truth gives honest evidence, but a false witness utters deceit.

When hurt, Satan and people working for him show up to give false witness
Wisely choose who you listen to & learn from
You are the loudest voice in your life
What foolish choices have made your life harder?

Proverbs 14:14 [ESV] The backslider in heart will be filled with the fruit of his ways, and a good man will be filled with the fruit of his ways.

Sliding back to foolish choices

Proverbs 23:23 [NLT] Get the truth and never sell it; also get wisdom, discipline, and good judgment.

Principle of sowing-reaping
Principles of delayed gratification
How has life broken you?

Proverbs 15:13 [ESV] A glad heart makes a cheerful face, but by sorrow of heart the spirit is crushed.

Proverbs 17:22 [NLT] A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a broken spirit saps a person’s strength.

Bad people & broken people can be hard to distinguish

2 kinds of brokenness 1). Hopeless – not taken to God to remake 2). Hopeful – God rebuilds

=  Reset and rehabilitate – body or soul 

Do you feel guilty, dirty, or undeserving?

Proverbs 30:12 [ESV] There are those who are clean in their own eyes but are not washed of their filth.

Bible uses dozen words – defilement, unclean, filth,
Causes shame, hiding, fig leaves to cover up

            Identity based on 1). What I have done 2). What done to me 3). What done for me JC

Who or what do you fear?

Proverbs 12:25 [ESV] Anxiety in a man’s heart weighs him down…

Proverbs 3:24 [NLT] You can go to bed without fear; you will lie down and sleep soundly.

Fear of tomorrow robs you of today
Fear turns us into false prophets
Fear is most gripping for trauma victims, high control people, & false prophets

Proverbs 29:25 [NLT] Fearing people is a dangerous trap, but trusting the Lord means safety.

Fear of man. Their opinion matters too much. Your decision based upon their reaction

Have you hardened your heart?

Proverbs 28:14 [ESV] Blessed is the one who fears the Lord always, but whoever hardens his heart will fall into calamity.

Life does not determine the condition of your heart, you do

“The same sun that melts the ice hardens the clay”

Hard heart leads to a non-relational lifestyle with God & the people who love us most

How do you have a great marriage?
Friends 40-year wedding anniversary
Our 27th was Thursday

#1. Faith

Proverbs 1:7 [ESV] The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge; fools despise wisdom and instruction.

Fear

Respect & reverence, honor and humility, priority and purpose.
God first in everything
What is right in the sight of God?

Everyone needs a new beginning. My testimony

Proverbs 28:14 [ESV] Blessed is the one who fears the Lord always, but whoever hardens his heart will fall into calamity.

Honor goes up, blessing comes down
God wants your heart 
God does not bless people, God does bless heart conditions

Jesus taught that hardness of heart was the cause of divorce (Matt. 19:18)

Proverbs 31:11,30 [ESV] The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain…Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.

You need God
No one else can meet your relational needs
Healthy relationship w/God – example & resources for healthy relationships

Faith is belief that directs behavior

2 faiths – highest divorce rates
1 shared XN faith
lowest divorce rates, lowest domestic violence rates,
highest – happy wives, father involve w/kids, affectionate dads, empathetic husbands 

We did not start w/faith. I was unbelieving/religious. Grace was believer/rebellious

#2. Forgiveness

Proverbs 20:9 [NIV] Who can say, “I have kept my heart pure; I am clean and without sin”?

Reality

Sin – shortcoming, wrong doing, rebellion, folly

Why do we sin?  

Sigmund Freud – primal urges
Carl Jung – Collective unconsciousness from our racial history
Carl Rogers – forgot our goodness, picked up some bad habits from others
Bible – children of Adam (Rom. 5:12-21)

Proverbs 14:16 [ESV] One who is wise is cautious and turns away from evil, but a fool is reckless and careless.

Repentance

Change mind & heart = change of decision & direction

Proverbs 13:21 [ESV] Disaster pursues sinners, but the righteous are rewarded with good.

Reward

Dr. John Gottman – 16 yrs, observed 49  married couples in an apartment/lab
Recorded everything from facial expressions to heart rate – 91% divorce prediction

4 Horsemen

“harsh startup”

Criticism – naming the sin, attacking the person not the problem
Contempt – disgust, name calling, mocking, provoking body language (roll eyes, glaring)
Defensiveness – guilty person doubles down, excuses, blame-shifts
Stonewalling – Cold War (85% x husband) – heart divorce before the legal divorce 

Sin leads to death, Jesus leads to life.

Taught us to pray (Matt. 6) “forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors”
Everyone has a record of debt to God & others (Col. 2:13-15)
Jesus does not make us pay (mercy). Jesus does pay for us (grace) 

= There is no personal health without forgiveness for you & others (mind, body, heart)

=  There is no relationship without forgiveness. Test? Bless!

SHOVEL Story

#3. Friendship

Proverbs 18:24 [ESV] A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.

Friends are Rare

Friendship- overused word (all friendships are relationships, not all relationships are friendships)

Quantity vs Quality of relationship (social media followers vs friends) 
Friendly toward all, friends with a few

Proverbs 13:20 [ESV] Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm.

Friends are wise, foolish, evil
Am I a wise friend? Am I picking wise friends?
You need to agree on personal friends and couple friends
Friendship with the wise, ministry to the foolish
Jesus is the wisest friend to walk with (“One wiser than Solomon is here”)

Proverbs 17:17 [ESV] A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.

You find out who your friends are in tough times
70% women & men want friendship w/spouse (Gottman)  
Friendship defends against domineering

Back to Back, Shoulder to Shoulder, Face to Face & our story

Night before wedding stayed w/uncle John (Glady’s story)

#4. Fun

Proverbs 15:13-19, 22 [NLT] A glad heart makes a happy face; a broken heart crushes the spirit. A wise person is hungry for knowledge, while the fool feeds on trash. For the despondent, every day brings trouble; for the happy heart, life is a continual feast. Better to have little, with fear for the Lord, than to have great treasure and inner turmoil.  A bowl of vegetables with someone you love is better than steak with someone you hate. A hot-tempered person starts fights; a cool-tempered person stops them. A lazy person’s way is blocked with briers, but the path of the upright is an open highway…Plans go wrong for lack of advice; many advisers bring success.

Look back to the past – take photos, capture memories & revisit them
Look now to the present – windows of opportunity
Look forward to the present – ask spouse & make plans

How do you raise kids you enjoy?

1st day of school – this year vs little years

Overheard a conversation

Parent #1 “I’m so glad summer is over. I hate having the kids around all the time”
Parent #2 “Really, I love having the kids around all the time and get sad when school starts”

The goal is not to endure your child, but enjoy your child

Psalm 127:3 [NASB] Behold, children are a gift of the Lord

Gifts are to be enjoyed

Proverbs: “Want to” vs “How to”

Proverbs is Practical
Proverbs is Pithy – 31 chapters, 1X day
Proverbs is Principles not Promises

Wisdom vs Folly 

law/grace         oppression/deliverance                        truth/lies;         

Smart people get good grades, wise people live good lives
Wisdom is the path to Spirit-filled living

Find the Center of Your Family

Proverbs 1:2-7 [NLT] Their [Proverbs] purpose is to teach people wisdom and discipline, to help them understand the insights of the wise. Their purpose is to teach people to live disciplined and successful lives, to help them do what is right, just, and fair. These proverbs will give insight to the simple, knowledge and discernment to the young. Let the wise listen to these proverbs and become even wiser. Let those with understanding receive guidance by exploring the meaning in these proverbs and parables, the words of the wise and their riddles. Fear of the Lord is the foundation of true knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and discipline.

School/Grades  Sports/Winning  Making $/Work  Fear/Control  Crisis/Emergency  Comfort/Left alone

Center – God (God 1st)
Priority – school of wisdom (every parent homeschools)
Knowledge is knowing the truth, wisdom is knowing what to do with the truth. 
Knowledge it theoretical, wisdom is practical.
Knowledge fills your mind, wisdom guides your life.
Knowledge is truthful, wisdom is useful.
Knowledge provides information, wisdom provides transformation.

= You can have knowledge without wisdom, but you cannot have wisdom without knowledge.

Where is Wisdom?

1.Scripture 2.Prayer 3.HS 4. General rev 5. Wise counsel 6. Your experience 7. Their experience

Center & Priority – God & wisdom or…

Learn the Heart of Parenting  

Proverbs 4:23 [NIV] Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.

900+ X Bible – Emotional center
Cause/heart – Effect/behavior

Parents Heart

How’s your heart (speech flows heart – cursing, yelling, name calling, selfish motives)
God needs to parent your heart before you parent their heart

Child’s Heart

Needs a new heart to be cared for

India further downstream = more pollution

4 Kinds of Kids

Bad heart bad behavior
Bad heart good behavior
Good heart bad behavior
Good heart good behavior

Tips for Training

Proverbs 22:6 [ESV] Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.

Parents are primary
Every child is trained. Not every child is trained in wisdom
Parenting is about sowing and reaping
Repetition is required
Mom and dad unified vision
Training can be exhausting because class is always in session (tv/movie pause)
View, Voice, Vote (AZ move vs restaurant)
Teach kids what is happening and why (flight prep)

Connect Before You Correct

Proverbs 4:1-5 [ESV] Hear, O sons, a father’s instruction, and be attentive, that you may gain insight, for I give you good precepts; do not forsake my teaching. When I was a son with my father, tender, the only one in the sight of my mother, he taught me and said to me, “Let your heart hold fast my words; keep my commandments, and live. Get wisdom; get insight; do not forget, and do not turn away from the words of my mouth.

I love you with God’s love
I want a good long life for you
I am the first person in line who is for you

Emphasize Delight Over Discipline   

Proverbs 3:11-12 [NIV] My son, do not despise the LORD’s discipline and do not resent his rebuke, because the LORD disciplines those he loves, as a father the son he delights in.

Love & Like: Goal is to enjoy life with your child, make memories, have fun 

Love and Like each other
Constantly working toward having fun & making memories
Occasionally correcting to get back to the goal of delight
Discipline is not to control but to teach them self-control

Capture and revisit the good times

Parenting is Seasonal

Proverbs 31:28 [ESV] Her children rise up and call her blessed

Proverbs 17:6 [NLT] Grandchildren are the crowning glory of the aged; parents are the pride of their children.

Conception to birth – preparing your heart & home (car seat, birthing classes, nutrition)
Baby (birth to 18 months) – feeding and nurturing so the child develops (emotional bond, comforting touch, feeding, investing body/soul/mind, touching everything & tactile learning)
Toddler (18 mos to 3 yrs) – informal training (“no”, emotional regulation, rules, part of a group, delayed gratification, chores, form preferences, reading to)
Preschooler (3-6 yrs) – consistent training during busy years (reading with, formal learning, “why”, playing, socializing, crafts, playing outside “dirt therapy”)
School age (6-12 years) – character and identity formation (growing independence, parents not always present, interest exploration, friend groups form, style) 
Teens (13-18) – transition (identity, puberty, moodiness, their world, test boundaries)
Young adults (19+) – cultivating responsible independence (bills, job, self govern)
Adults – lifting burdens and being wise counsel
Every season – blessings & challenges
Conflict happens when parent and child don’t move into next season together
Dad & son story (kids & grandkids)

The Flesh vs The Spirit

1. The unseen realm

2 realms; 1 reality
God has a family in each realm
Angels appear roughly 300 times in the Bible and roughly 90% of the books

“innumerable angels”, “a thousand thousands and 10k x 10k”
2 angels are named – Gabriel, Michael
Categories angels (archangel, commander), and kinds (cherubim and seraphim)
Higher divine beings -“sons of God”, “the gods”,

No human body, gender, physical limitation
No divine attributes or qualities
Seen Realm – the war in heaven has battles in our life as Satan recruits us for coup

2. God Creates, Satan Counterfeits

3. Heaven down or hell up
= ? Religion vs Rebellion – created/heaven vs counterfeit/hell

Rebellion and Religion Are Hell Up

Galatians 5:13-15 For you were called to freedom, brothers. Only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another. For the whole law is fulfilled in one word: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” But if you bite and devour one another, watch out that you are not consumed by one another.

Freedom – internal freedom

Rebellion – “flesh” = you without God – unrighteous
Religion – “bite and devour” = you without God – self righteous
These 2 spirits war in families and churches

Is there a third way?

= Prodigal son story – 1). Rebellious son 2). Religious son 3). Redeeming Son

Feed Your Deepest Desires

Galatians 5:16-18 But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. For the desires of the flesh are against the Spirit, and the desires of the Spirit are against the flesh, for these are opposed to each other, to keep you from doing the things you want to do. But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law.

Over 300X Bible refers to “sinners”
Only 3X does Bible “possibly refer to XN as “sinners”
Over 200X Bible XN saints/holy/righteous
NOT perfect YOU but a NEW YOU on the path to perfection
Non-XN vs XN

Non-XN – deepest desires from your fallen flesh
XN – deepest desires from Holy Spirit
BLACK LICORICE (college desires)
Works of the Flesh

Galatians 5:19-21 Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.

Flesh follows gravity of world system

Sexual Sins – ruin relationship w/self

Sexual immorality – porneia/pornographic – anything outside heterosexual marriage
Impurity – any moral filth that separates from God
Sensuality – lack of restraint, decency
Spiritual Sins – ruin relationship w/God

Idolatry – someone or something other than God is the center of our life
Sorcery – spirituality without the Spirit
Social Sins – ruin relationship w/others

Enmity – hatred not forgiveness
Strife – conflict, drama
Jealousy – coveting
Fits of anger – emotionally untethered
Rivalries – ladder climbing, unholy competing
Dissensions – us vs them
Divisions – 2 visions
Envy – passive aggressive seethingDrunkenness – can be any abused substance
Orgies – partying, pornography, sexual sins of various kinds
And things like these – Junk Drawer
FISHING

How overcome sins of the flesh?

Minimization: Try and manage sin to keep it from getting worse. Sin is like cancer.
Compartmentalization: Try and hide it, live a secret double life, hoping not caught.
Celebration: Accept it as your new identity and be proud.
Liberation: Kill what Jesus died for & live free.
Fruit of the Spirit

Galatians 5:22-26 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live by the Spirit, let us also keep in step with the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another.

Be a Gardener not a Fruit Inspector
Character of Christ by the power of the Spirit
John 15:5 I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me…bears much fruit

God works 1. FOR YOU (cross) 2. IN YOU (new birth) 3. THROUGH YOU (fruit)

Fruit 1). to nourish others making them healthy 2). to be pressed or crushed to reveal

Love – God’s love for us, in us, and through us
Joy – in God’s will
Peace – with God and others
Patience – seeking God’s timing
Kindness – considerate and not rude
Goodness – generosity in our words, wealth, and works
Faithfulness – reliable, trustworthy
Gentleness – not domineering
Self-control – not self-indulgent or out of control
The Holy Spirit is the master key

The Flesh vs The Spirit

1. The unseen realm

2 realms; 1 reality
God has a family in each realm
Angels appear roughly 300 times in the Bible and roughly 90% of the books

“innumerable angels”, “a thousand thousands and 10k x 10k”
2 angels are named – Gabriel, Michael
Categories angels (archangel, commander), and kinds (cherubim and seraphim)
Higher divine beings -“sons of God”, “the gods”,

No human body, gender, physical limitation
No divine attributes or qualities
Seen Realm – the war in heaven has battles in our life as Satan recruits us for coup

2. God Creates, Satan Counterfeits

3. Heaven down or hell up
= ? Religion vs Rebellion – created/heaven vs counterfeit/hell

Rebellion and Religion Are Hell Up

Galatians 5:13-15 For you were called to freedom, brothers. Only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another. For the whole law is fulfilled in one word: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” But if you bite and devour one another, watch out that you are not consumed by one another.

Freedom – internal freedom

Rebellion – “flesh” = you without God – unrighteous
Religion – “bite and devour” = you without God – self righteous
These 2 spirits war in families and churches

Is there a third way?

= Prodigal son story – 1). Rebellious son 2). Religious son 3). Redeeming Son

Feed Your Deepest Desires

Galatians 5:16-18 But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. For the desires of the flesh are against the Spirit, and the desires of the Spirit are against the flesh, for these are opposed to each other, to keep you from doing the things you want to do. But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law.

Over 300X Bible refers to “sinners”
Only 3X does Bible “possibly refer to XN as “sinners”
Over 200X Bible XN saints/holy/righteous
NOT perfect YOU but a NEW YOU on the path to perfection
Non-XN vs XN

Non-XN – deepest desires from your fallen flesh
XN – deepest desires from Holy Spirit
BLACK LICORICE (college desires)
Works of the Flesh

Galatians 5:19-21 Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.

Flesh follows gravity of world system

Sexual Sins – ruin relationship w/self

Sexual immorality – porneia/pornographic – anything outside heterosexual marriage
Impurity – any moral filth that separates from God
Sensuality – lack of restraint, decency
Spiritual Sins – ruin relationship w/God

Idolatry – someone or something other than God is the center of our life
Sorcery – spirituality without the Spirit
Social Sins – ruin relationship w/others

Enmity – hatred not forgiveness
Strife – conflict, drama
Jealousy – coveting
Fits of anger – emotionally untethered
Rivalries – ladder climbing, unholy competing
Dissensions – us vs them
Divisions – 2 visions
Envy – passive aggressive seethingDrunkenness – can be any abused substance
Orgies – partying, pornography, sexual sins of various kinds
And things like these – Junk Drawer
FISHING

How overcome sins of the flesh?

Minimization: Try and manage sin to keep it from getting worse. Sin is like cancer.
Compartmentalization: Try and hide it, live a secret double life, hoping not caught.
Celebration: Accept it as your new identity and be proud.
Liberation: Kill what Jesus died for & live free.
Fruit of the Spirit

Galatians 5:22-26 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live by the Spirit, let us also keep in step with the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another.

Be a Gardener not a Fruit Inspector
Character of Christ by the power of the Spirit
John 15:5 I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me…bears much fruit

God works 1. FOR YOU (cross) 2. IN YOU (new birth) 3. THROUGH YOU (fruit)

Fruit 1). to nourish others making them healthy 2). to be pressed or crushed to reveal

Love – God’s love for us, in us, and through us
Joy – in God’s will
Peace – with God and others
Patience – seeking God’s timing
Kindness – considerate and not rude
Goodness – generosity in our words, wealth, and works
Faithfulness – reliable, trustworthy
Gentleness – not domineering
Self-control – not self-indulgent or out of control
The Holy Spirit is the master key

Sermon Summary:Just like a car that is out of alignment that pulls to the left or the right, so too our lives get out of alignment veering toward rebellion or religion. In this very practical section of Scripture, you will learn that both are bad, but that God has good news for a brand new way of life for you!Car out of alignment pulls to right (religion) or left (rebellion) & these 2 often battleFreedom and ResponsibilityGalatians 5:1 For freedom Christ has set us free; stand firm therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery. [ESV]ExodusSlaves set free 2. Romanticized past 3. Forgot identity 4. False “god”We were slaves to sin, death, Satan/demonicJesus set us free, won our war, now we need to hold the lineWe are free to defeat sin, death, Satan/demonicHow? Opposing yoke/religious legalism in the SpiritLegalismLegalism is what happens when people try and do the HS jobLegalism is godless (don’t need to pray & seek the Lord, just follow the rules)Legalism puts law-based people in authority for “transparency & accountability”Legalism does addition, not subtractionLegalism seeks to prevent people from needing graceLegalism makes neutral things necessary (e.g. Paul was circumcised)Legalism prevents maturity (unless your righteousness exceeds Scribes & Pharisees)= Kids – the more responsible/mature you are, the more freedom you getExamples – Are you water baptized? Do you speak in tongues? Do you have the right Bible translation? Do you go to the right kind of church? Do you educate your kids right? Do you have the right religious traditions? Tattoo? Ministry program?= Legalism can pick any issue, including being anti-legalist= Grace & I engaged, relative said we needed priest/Catholic Church marriageFaith and FaithfulnessGalatians 5:2-6 Look: I, Paul, say to you that if you accept circumcision, Christ will be of no advantage to you. I testify again to every man who accepts circumcision that he is obligated to keep the whole law. You are severed from Christ, you who would be justified by the law; you have fallen away from grace. For through the Spirit, by faith, we ourselves eagerly wait for the hope of righteousness. For in Christ Jesus neither circumcision nor uncircumcision counts for anything, but only faith working through love.Option 1 – Faith in me & what I do for GodKeep the whole law (perfect)Not going to happensin is condition, not just actionit’s too lateit’s impossibleJesus added the spirit of the law (murder vs hating brother, adultery of heart)There is no grace – pass/fail perfect/imperfectOption 2 – Faith in Jesus & what God did for meJesus did all the work He gives me grace today & foreverI trust Him by faithHe gives me the Spirit to live & love todayCessationism stunts maturityCessationism supports legalism= Jesus is the master key – circumcision, diet, priesthood & sacrifice, holidays???Receiving and RejectingGalatians 5:7-11 You were running well. Who hindered you from obeying the truth? This persuasion is not from him who calls you. A little leaven leavens the whole lump. I have confidence in the Lord that you will take no other view, and the one who is troubling you will bear the penalty, whoever he is. But if I, brothers, still preach circumcision, why am I still being persecuted? In that case the offense of the cross has been removed.Some things are all or nothing – pregnancy, death, legalismLegalism is LikeTrack meet – you are following Jesus, someone shoves you off the trackKitchen – leaven of the Pharisees Matt 16:11 “beware of the leaven of the Pharisees and Sadducees”Battlefront – war against graceTo Receive Jesus’ Grace is to Reject Human Religious Works= Grace – I rejected other relationships. Fidelity – reject adulteryReceiveMessage is offensive, NOT messengerJesus’ cross was offensive in His dayJesus’ cross is offensive in our day (denial of human potential)RejectPeople who push you away from Jesus Little things that can become big things (water heater & mold) Trying to reconcile things that God does not (syncretism)Person drowning not making it, lifeguard jumps in, risk is person not surrendering both drown. Christ cannot save someone (grace) determined to save themselves (works), or help their rescue. Religion and RebellionGalatians 5:12-15 I wish those who unsettle you would emasculate themselves! For you were called to freedom, brothers. Only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another. For the whole law is fulfilled in one word: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” But if you bite and devour one another, watch out that you are not consumed by one another.Option #1 – Religion – Legalism (older son)Legalism is a demonic counterfeit – Ancient feminist cultLegalism turns people into beastsSatan serpent/dragon lion, demons python spirit, goat demons, & wild animals including ostriches, bulls, hyenas, birds, and scorpions. Evil people vipers, serpents, goats, cows, dogs, wolves, leeches, donkeys, & evil beasts.Wild animals – wild dogs in Galatia, wild dogs & fight when I was a kidSocial mediaOption #2 – Rebellion – Liberalism (younger son)Indulging flesh/sinful desiresFreedom is freedom from sin to Christ, not freedom to sin against ChristOption #3 – Redemption – LoveOnly the Holy Spirit can produce love – not religion or rebellion God’s grace 1. FOR you 2. IN you 3. Through youWater heater storyReligion & Rebellion start like a bit of water that creates mold that overtakes your lifeAnswer – bring in an expert to rip, replace, & rescue – relationship with Holy Spirit

Sermon Summary:There are basically two kinds of relationships Christians have. One is law-based. Someone has fears that compel them to control other people and circumstances through making demands. The other is grace-based. The two people trust the Holy Spirit to work in and through each of them, focus on their unity around Jesus Christ, and give grace in secondary matters where they disagree.For people flourish, they need to live in an environment that’s architectedGod made the world for us, body designed, home architected, car engineeredRelationships house people & need to be architectedPaul – law based religious guy converted to grace-based Jesus guyGalatia – no XN, Paul showed up & taught grace-based relationship w/God & othersFalse brothers – after Paul, show up & teach law-based relationship w/God & othersHOW?Consider a person or group you have a strained/painful relationship withIt’s largely my fault and I need to own itIt’s both our faults, I will apologize first to work toward reconciliationIt’s largely their fault, and I need to correct them#1. Seek to be a means of graceEphesians 4:29-30 Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.Is the issue worth having conflict and risking the relationship over?glory to overlook offense, love coversForgive & FlushAm I the best person to raise the issue?Taking offense for someone else?; Does someone else need to step up?How can the Holy Spirit empower me to be a means of grace?PrincipleCase Study Example – rest of Galatians 4#2. Don’t overlook the demonicGalatians 4:8-9 Formerly, when you did not know God, you were enslaved to those that by nature are not gods. But now that you have come to know God, or rather to be known by God, how can you turn back again to the weak and worthless elementary principles of the world, whose slaves you want to be once more?Before Jesus – “you did not know God”, you did know demonsAfter Jesus – “known by God”; “know God” = relationshipIt’s from demons, to Jesus, & back to demonsWhat are the four legs of a Biblical worldview?1. The unseen realmThere are two realms that form one reality2. Binary thinkingGod Creates Satan Counterfeits3. Group guiltGod holds everyone responsible for their sin e.g. Adam, Eve, Satan“False brothers” and real Christians in Galatia4. Heaven down or hell up#3. Show the bad and good tracksGalatians 4:10-15 You observe days and months and seasons and years! I am afraid I may have labored over you in vain. Brothers, I entreat you, become as I am, for I also have become as you are. You did me no wrong. You know it was because of a bodily ailment that I preached the gospel to you at first, and though my condition was a trial to you, you did not scorn or despise me, but received me as an angel of God, as Christ Jesus. What then has become of your blessedness? For I testify to you that, if possible, you would have gouged out your eyes and given them to me.Specifics – “circumcision”; “holidays”Paul not opposed to the holidays as he celebrated= You became a Christian & now going backward to an old lifestyle (Judaism)Pastor Rick conversationEmphasize the bad and ignore the good (pessimist) “always” “never” “only”Emphasize the good and ignore the bad (optimist)Emphasize both the good and the bad (realist)BADLegalism – ungodly rules over godly relationshipLabored in vain – as kid bucket w/o bottom (some people waste of time & energy)I was Jewish & became like you, be like I am NOT like I wasGOODYou received Jesus Christ through the gospelYou received me (I was Jewish, sick, needy & you welcomed me)You were blessed by GodYou were a blessing to me#4. Encourage healthy relationshipsGalatians 4:16-17 Have I then become your enemy by telling you the truth? They make much of you, but for no good purpose. They want to shut you out, that you may make much of them.Unhealthy RelationshipsDemand perfection, punish imperfectionCreate ungodly division (Paul “enemy”)They win, you lose (“make much of them”)Push you further from JesusHealthy RelationshipsCelebrate progress toward perfectionBased upon truth about God and youEmphasizes God’s work 1). FOR you 2). IN you 3). THROUGH YOUPulls you closer to Jesus Christ & other Christians#5. Connect before you correctGalatians 4:18-20 It is always good to be made much of for a good purpose, and not only when I am present with you, my little children, for whom I am again in the anguish of childbirth until Christ is formed in you! I wish I could be present with you now and change my tone, for I am perplexed about you.

Little boy loves dad, knows 1 word & points a lot Perhaps 2 most important things you learn in Bible 1). Who God is 2). Who you areDo you belong to Christ? Galatians 3:29 And if you are Christ’s, then you are Abraham’s offspring, heirs according to promise.You must be born again (physical vs spiritual) Equivalent – I was born into XN familyAre you a spiritual child or a maturing adult? Galatians 4:1-2 I mean that the heir, as long as he is a child, is no different from a slave, though he is the owner of everything, but he is under guardians and managers until the date set by his father. Roman EmpireKids – beaten, garbage/dung pile – die, slave, prostitute, gladiatorDisabled & girls – desert, river, suffocate Infant mortality – ½ kids died by 5 yrs, less 40% lived to 20 Wait 8-9 days to name = The quality of your life depended upon the character of your father People helped raise you (nanny, teacher, coach, youth pastor) Maturity not age was measured – father decided when you were adult When mature, allowed to make own decisions = Legalism is immature, it’s going backwards, paint by numbers, music chordsDo you see yourself as a slave or a son? Galatians 4:3-5 In the same way we also, when we were children, were enslaved to the elementary principles of the world. But when the fullness of time had come, God sent forth his Son, born of woman, born under the law, to redeem those who were under the law, so that we might receive adoption as sons.American Slavery Almost entirely racial Lifetime status as masters property Children born by a slave also property of the master People were property passed on in the estate along with livestock Egypt & Joseph, Babylon & Daniel 1 Timothy 1:9-10 “We also know that the law is made not for the righteous but for lawbreakers and rebels, the ungodly and sinful, the unholy and irreligious…for slave traders…and for whatever else is contrary to the sound doctrine.”Ancient Slavery Not mainly racial – all races had slaves & were slaves Not often a lifetime status, most freed by 30 or emancipated Slaves often educated & trained then freed start business & contract w/master Slaves were elders & deacons in the churchPhmn 1:16 Paul wants Onesimus received by the church as a brother not a slave How Become slave? Sometimes a debt payoff like our bankruptcy repossessionSometimes sell self into slavery for a better life Sometimes taken as prisoners of warSometimes abandoned infants = Complicated, diverse, sometimes unjust & sinful • Son – ancient world son had legal power & inheritance (male & female)Slave vs Son Controlling relationship vs Loving relationshipPowerless vs EmpoweredWorks based lifestyle vs Grace based lifestyleForever out of the family vs Forever in the family =Adoption – ancient world w/adults, $ cancelled, legal authority, inheritance (e.g. politicalDo you relate to God as master or Father? Galatians 4:6-7 And because you are sons, God has sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, crying, “Abba! Father!” So you are no longer a slave, but a son, and if a son, then an heir through God. • Identity – live for, live from Father Mormons & Muslims – focus on faulty fatherhoodPentecostal and Charismatics – HSEvangelical & Reformed – Jesus Atheism – I have no Father. Agnosticism – I may or may not have a Father, but I’ve never met Him, I don’t know who or where He is, and I don’t really care to find out. Deism – I have a Father but, like my dad who abandoned me when I was little, He lives far away and we don’t have a relationship.Reformed theology – I have a Father who is distant, controlling, and not very relational Arminian theology – I have a Father who is passive and lets me make my own decisions and do whatever I want, like my earthly dad who stayed out of my affairs.Liberal/Progressive – I have a Father who acts more like an enabling older sibling and does not tell me what to do but helps me do whatever I want, even foolish or rebellious. Feminist theology says that we don’t need a Father since men are dangerous and harmful, we should be spiritually raised by a single parent and worship God as Mother.OT Lots about fathers (patriarchal)Little about God Father – roughly 15X, not to individuals JESUS#1 name for God – 65X Matt-Luke; 100X John = 165X Abba – no indication this word used before Jesus of God “Our Father” – how relate to God Jesus = 1. Son of God 2. Spirit-filled Luke 3:22 a voice came from heaven, “You are my beloved Son; with you I am well pleased.Luke 4:3,9 “If you are the Son of God” (tested) CLOSE People become like their view of GodPeople use their relationship with God as the template for all relationshipsGod as Master vs God as Father A master uses you vs A father blesses you You serve them vs They serve you Motivate you by fear  vsMotivate you by loveBeats you down vs Builds you up No inheritance vs Full inheritance (HS downpayment)

Sermon Summary:Pretty much everyone wishes they could figure out how to get God’s blessing to rain down in their life. The Bible presents a shocking pattern of God’s blessing. A long time ago, there was a normal guy who did not know God just living his life. That man’s name was Abraham. God showed up in his life, spoke to him, and said He had a plan to bless Abraham and his family. Ever since, the debate has raged over who his family members are that inherit this blessing. The good news is, there is a way to join that family and enjoy that blessing by faith in Jesus Christ.Shepherds, Wolves, SheepGalatians 3:1 O foolish Galatians! Who has bewitched you? It was before your eyes that Jesus Christ was publicly portrayed as crucified.Wise – Paul (shepherd/Spirit)Like a marketing campaign, Jesus was the talk of the townYou were focused on JesusEvil – “false brothers” (wolves/demonic)Now spell/curse has you confusedCounterfeit of Holy Spirit is demonic spirit at workGood advice re: what you do vs Good News re: what Jesus didFoolish – Galatians (sheep/flesh)J. B. Phillips, ‘O you dear idiots of Galatia … surely you can’t be so idiotic …?’= Who do you know that is wise? Who do you know that is evil? How are you foolish?God’s PresenceGalatians 3:2-3 Let me ask you only this: Did you receive the Spirit by works of the law or by hearing with faith? Are you so foolish? Having begun by the Spirit, are you now being perfected by the flesh?Religious people hold court & sit in the judge seatPaul goes on offensive with some questions1. There’s clarity in your testimony2. How did God first show up in your life? Holy Spirit = the sign of salvation (requires relationship)3. God’s Presence came by grace not works= Adding your works is like flapping your wings on a flight to helpGod’s Purpose Galatians 3:4 Did you suffer so many things in vain—if indeed it was in vain?There were 2 teams – 1 for the gospel, 1 againstThey caused you to suffer & the Spirit powered, now you are changing sides in the warYou’ve changed, so were you wrong then or now?Revolutionary War – Benedict Arnold – born 1/14/1741 in Connecticut. Became military captain to fight British. War hero valued by George Washington. Offered to surrender military base at West Point for $ & rank in enemy army. Went on to attack Virginia, almost capturing Thomas Jefferson, then attacked Connecticut – WAR in HEAVENGod’s PowerGalatians 3:5 Does he who supplies the Spirit to you and works miracles among you do so by works of the law, or by hearing with faith—Miracles happen – got building, planted church, every prayer answered, people saved, people healed, people are growing = supernatural graceGod’s power comes by grace not worksPreached Word + faith = salvationPreaching & Power must be PersonalizedGod’s PeopleGalatians 3:6-9 just as Abraham “believed God, and it was counted to him as righteousness”? Know then that it is those of faith who are the sons of Abraham. And the Scripture, foreseeing that God would justify the Gentiles by faith, preached the gospel beforehand to Abraham, saying, “In you shall all the nations be blessed.” So then, those who are of faith are blessed along with Abraham, the man of faith.Abraham – Inheritance – promised blessings through & to his family.Jewish proud of their relationship to him (imagine big deal in your family history)Counterfeit Abraham – he was Jewish, he circumcised himself & family, this is in keeping with the Law of Moses = this is what you need to doReal Abraham – he was a Gentile, God showed up to bless him (Land, Lineage), he had faith in God, circumcision happened 13-14 years later, the Law of Moses came 400-500 years later = faith is all that mattersAbraham has 3 kinds of children:Culturally Jewish with faith in Christ = ChristiansCulturally Jewish without faith in Christ = non-ChristiansCulturally Gentile with faith in Christ = ChristiansStart with Jesus, Stay with JesusGalatians 3:10-14 For all who rely on works of the law are under a curse; for it is written, “Cursed be everyone who does not abide by all things written in the Book of the Law, and do them.” [Deuteronomy 27:26] 11 Now it is evident that no one is justified before God by the law, for “The righteous shall live by faith.” [Habakkuk 2:4] 12 But the law is not of faith, rather “The one who does them shall live by them.” [Leviticus 18:5] 13 Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law by becoming a curse for us—for it is written, “Cursed is everyone who is hanged on a tree”— [Deuteronomy 21:23] 14 so that in Christ Jesus the blessing of Abraham might come to the Gentiles, so that we might receive the promised Spirit through faith.Law judges & condemns you (perfection in letter and Spirit)Even if you started obeying today it’s too late. Your life is a test & you’ve not passed.Faith – you’re gonna need to trust someone (religious leader, philosopher, self)Trust Christ The great exchange – Jesus took your place, put you in His placeEvery blessing comes with Christ starting with Holy SpiritWorks VS Faith A ladder you climb to God VS A ladder God came down to youDemands to obey VS Promises to believeAbout what you do VS About what Jesus didCompare self to others  VS Compare self to JesusCauses pride or despair  VS Causes humble joyCursed VS BlessedThere’s Blessing for YOU!LAW – Commencement, school president said that they were only accepting people who not only had a 4.0 but never had a red mark on a paper or missed a question on a quiz. Every person who had worked so hard was called forth and declared “failed”.GRACE -1 perfect student came forth and was declared “passed”. Imagine that student then stood forth to give the commencement address. They tell all the other students, if you respond in faith & come back on the stage I would like to shake your hand and trade/exchange transcripts with you. I will take your “F”, and give you my “A”.Suspicion: It sounds too good to be true, so some don’t come forward for the exchange.Offense: The students who worked really hard and felt they did good enough are angryEnthusiasm: Some students who blew it, including those who dropped out & flunked out, came forward and took the deal.

Sermon Summary:Pretty much everyone wishes they could figure out how to get God’s blessing to rain down in their life. The Bible presents a shocking pattern of God’s blessing. A long time ago, there was a normal guy who did not know God just living his life. That man’s name was Abraham. God showed up in his life, spoke to him, and said He had a plan to bless Abraham and his family. Ever since, the debate has raged over who his family members are that inherit this blessing. The good news is, there is a way to join that family and enjoy that blessing by faith in Jesus Christ.Shepherds, Wolves, SheepGalatians 3:1 O foolish Galatians! Who has bewitched you? It was before your eyes that Jesus Christ was publicly portrayed as crucified.Wise – Paul (shepherd/Spirit)Like a marketing campaign, Jesus was the talk of the townYou were focused on JesusEvil – “false brothers” (wolves/demonic)Now spell/curse has you confusedCounterfeit of Holy Spirit is demonic spirit at workGood advice re: what you do vs Good News re: what Jesus didFoolish – Galatians (sheep/flesh)J. B. Phillips, ‘O you dear idiots of Galatia … surely you can’t be so idiotic …?’= Who do you know that is wise? Who do you know that is evil? How are you foolish?God’s PresenceGalatians 3:2-3 Let me ask you only this: Did you receive the Spirit by works of the law or by hearing with faith? Are you so foolish? Having begun by the Spirit, are you now being perfected by the flesh?Religious people hold court & sit in the judge seatPaul goes on offensive with some questions1. There’s clarity in your testimony2. How did God first show up in your life? Holy Spirit = the sign of salvation (requires relationship)3. God’s Presence came by grace not works= Adding your works is like flapping your wings on a flight to helpGod’s Purpose Galatians 3:4 Did you suffer so many things in vain—if indeed it was in vain?There were 2 teams – 1 for the gospel, 1 againstThey caused you to suffer & the Spirit powered, now you are changing sides in the warYou’ve changed, so were you wrong then or now?Revolutionary War – Benedict Arnold – born 1/14/1741 in Connecticut. Became military captain to fight British. War hero valued by George Washington. Offered to surrender military base at West Point for $ & rank in enemy army. Went on to attack Virginia, almost capturing Thomas Jefferson, then attacked Connecticut – WAR in HEAVENGod’s PowerGalatians 3:5 Does he who supplies the Spirit to you and works miracles among you do so by works of the law, or by hearing with faith—Miracles happen – got building, planted church, every prayer answered, people saved, people healed, people are growing = supernatural graceGod’s power comes by grace not worksPreached Word + faith = salvationPreaching & Power must be PersonalizedGod’s PeopleGalatians 3:6-9 just as Abraham “believed God, and it was counted to him as righteousness”? Know then that it is those of faith who are the sons of Abraham. And the Scripture, foreseeing that God would justify the Gentiles by faith, preached the gospel beforehand to Abraham, saying, “In you shall all the nations be blessed.” So then, those who are of faith are blessed along with Abraham, the man of faith.Abraham – Inheritance – promised blessings through & to his family.Jewish proud of their relationship to him (imagine big deal in your family history)Counterfeit Abraham – he was Jewish, he circumcised himself & family, this is in keeping with the Law of Moses = this is what you need to doReal Abraham – he was a Gentile, God showed up to bless him (Land, Lineage), he had faith in God, circumcision happened 13-14 years later, the Law of Moses came 400-500 years later = faith is all that mattersAbraham has 3 kinds of children:Culturally Jewish with faith in Christ = ChristiansCulturally Jewish without faith in Christ = non-ChristiansCulturally Gentile with faith in Christ = ChristiansStart with Jesus, Stay with JesusGalatians 3:10-14 For all who rely on works of the law are under a curse; for it is written, “Cursed be everyone who does not abide by all things written in the Book of the Law, and do them.” [Deuteronomy 27:26] 11 Now it is evident that no one is justified before God by the law, for “The righteous shall live by faith.” [Habakkuk 2:4] 12 But the law is not of faith, rather “The one who does them shall live by them.” [Leviticus 18:5] 13 Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law by becoming a curse for us—for it is written, “Cursed is everyone who is hanged on a tree”— [Deuteronomy 21:23] 14 so that in Christ Jesus the blessing of Abraham might come to the Gentiles, so that we might receive the promised Spirit through faith.Law judges & condemns you (perfection in letter and Spirit)Even if you started obeying today it’s too late. Your life is a test & you’ve not passed.Faith – you’re gonna need to trust someone (religious leader, philosopher, self)Trust Christ The great exchange – Jesus took your place, put you in His placeEvery blessing comes with Christ starting with Holy SpiritWorks VS Faith A ladder you climb to God VS A ladder God came down to youDemands to obey VS Promises to believeAbout what you do VS About what Jesus didCompare self to others  VS Compare self to JesusCauses pride or despair  VS Causes humble joyCursed VS BlessedThere’s Blessing for YOU!LAW – Commencement, school president said that they were only accepting people who not only had a 4.0 but never had a red mark on a paper or missed a question on a quiz. Every person who had worked so hard was called forth and declared “failed”.GRACE -1 perfect student came forth and was declared “passed”. Imagine that student then stood forth to give the commencement address. They tell all the other students, if you respond in faith & come back on the stage I would like to shake your hand and trade/exchange transcripts with you. I will take your “F”, and give you my “A”.Suspicion: It sounds too good to be true, so some don’t come forward for the exchange.Offense: The students who worked really hard and felt they did good enough are angryEnthusiasm: Some students who blew it, including those who dropped out & flunked out, came forward and took the deal.